Santander are already aware of my situation but they continue to hassle me. I want to come to an agreement with them but I don't know what they are supposed to do. You often find with these situations that there is a code of conduct or a right and wrong way to behave. I often feel with debt recovery that the companies have the option to conduct themselves any way they please so long as they operate within the law. However, there are usually guidelines issued by a regulator. Especially in the financial world. You have organisations like the FSA.
From the point of view of the organisation lending the money; the less the customer knows about these guidelines for conduct the more they can get away with in terms of hassling the customer into making repayments. The purpose of my initial enquiry was to discover what those guidelines were so I would know how to fight them and win. In my case, winning would be to do the honourable thing and pay back my debt, but to do this after a break - at the moment I can't afford it but they don't seem to be listening. If I don't know what they can and can't do or what they should or shouldn't do then I have no idea if I should expect them to accept my proposal or not. Do you see where I'm coming from? Without knowing their game there is no way I can beat them at it.
With the business, I do not want a loan for my business, so there is no point going to
Business support, information and advice | Business Link - I would like a loan from the government to pay back Santander, so I can get the break I need and then pay back the government when I can afford it.