Do not be sad, as dumb as it sounds there has never been a better time to have debt issues as there is a lot of help out there. Your debt can be dealt with quickly and pain free
First of go to
CCCS | Free debt help and debt advice from the UK's leading debt charity - they are a non profit debt counselling charity who will 100% help you and make you feel happier. First they will take your details and then with you, they will work out your income and expenditure. Whatever income is left, they will give you the letters to send your creditors - and creditors have for the most part been extremely understanding in this difficult economy. Also, the interest on your debts will be stopped, so matter how much you pay them each month, you will be reducing the debt.
The CCCs will help and support you for free. Your not alone and not the only one with debt issues. But they can be solved just by talking to people like the CCCs. Please do not pay someone to 'help' your debt situation.
I hope this helps and please let us know how you got on.